Virtual Intimacy Coaching — Online Sessions Nationwide
Geography should never be the reason someone doesn't get the support they need for this part of their life.
I'm Scott Schwertly — Nashville's sex and intimacy coach and founder of Coelle, a guided audio intimacy platform reaching individuals and couples across the country. While I'm based in Nashville and work with local clients in person, a significant portion of my coaching practice happens virtually — with individuals and couples across the United States who are ready to invest intentionally in their intimate lives regardless of where they live.
Virtual intimacy coaching is not a compromise. It is not a lesser version of in-person work. For many clients it is actually the preferred format — more private, more convenient, and more accessible than any in-person alternative they have available to them.
If you've been looking for a sex and intimacy coach and haven't been able to find the right fit locally — this page is for you.
Why Virtual Intimacy Coaching Works
The most important element of effective intimacy coaching is not physical proximity. It is the quality of the relationship between coach and client — the trust, the safety, the genuine understanding of where a person is and what they're working toward. That relationship develops just as fully over video as it does in person.
Desire and aliveness.
Understanding your own erotic wiring, what activates genuine desire, and what consistently suppresses it. Developing a more honest and embodied relationship with your own intimate experience.
Couples connection and desire mismatch.
Navigating the specific patterns that create distance between partners — the desire asymmetry, the communication breakdown, the quiet erosion of aliveness that happens in long-term relationships when intimacy goes uninvested.
Embodied Presence
Moving from the cognitive management of intimate experience into genuine physical presence — feeling rather than performing, inhabiting rather than monitoring.
Shame and inherited beliefs.
Addressing the cultural, familial, and faith-based messages about sexuality and the body that quietly limit intimate experience and that most people have carried for years without ever having examined them directly.
Communication around intimacy.
Developing the specific language and relational safety to have honest conversations about desire, needs, and what each partner actually wants — conversations most couples have been quietly avoiding for years.
The Erotic Blueprint framework.
Understanding the five distinct arousal styles and how knowing your Blueprint — and your partner's — can reframe years of misunderstanding and open genuinely new territory in your intimate life.
What Virtual Sessions Look Like Practically
Sessions are conducted via video — Zoom or a platform of your choice — and are 60 minutes in length. The format is conversational, structured, and deeply personalized to where you actually are. Every session ends with something concrete: a practice to try, a conversation to have, a framework to apply, an exercise to explore.
The first step is always a free 30-minute discovery call — conducted virtually, completely confidential, and with no commitment required. We talk about where you are, what you're looking for, and whether working together makes sense. If coaching isn't the right fit I'll tell you honestly and point you toward someone who is.
Rates: Individual virtual sessions $200 per hour. Couples virtual sessions $250 per hour. Package rates available — ask during your discovery call.
Payment is accepted via Venmo and PayPal.
Virtual Coaching and Coelle — How They Work Together
Many virtual coaching clients use Coelle — the guided audio intimacy platform Brittney and I founded — alongside their coaching engagement. Coelle offers private, accessible guided audio experiences that clients can explore between sessions, bringing what surfaces into our coaching conversations for deeper integration.
For anyone who isn't ready for live coaching yet — or who wants to begin exploring privately before committing to a session — Coelle is an excellent starting point. It's available anywhere, anytime, and designed for exactly the kind of intentional intimate exploration that coaching builds on.
